Transformation
of the Couple
For couples who are truly dedicated to real positive change, the relationship offers a unique opportunity for transformation.
As men and women, we have the capacity to help bring out energies in eachother that can be very difficult to awaken in oneself alone.
Not to make use of this in the relationship is a waste.
When both are dedicated to turning their lives around and have an appetite for experiencing the divine, the energy needed for transformation will be enough.
But it often means facing some unpleasant sides in oneself that will otherwise undermine the relating and hijack the energy.
Most couples though, not having the strength and dedication for the real practice of tantra, end up settling for a mere 'co-existence'.
Relationship is, in truth, just the product of what both bring to each moment of relating. If it will be a truly opening experience or not depends on the intent, depth of feeling and skill of both.
One has to become a true Lover - one who always wants to bring out the best in the other, and also has the skills and strength to do it.
Transformation of the couple is a real challenge. But true lovers succeed because their appetite for beauty is stronger than their addiction to old habits.
